tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3388623297510187244.post3261063294422363268..comments2024-02-23T03:26:11.779+00:00Comments on Growing Things and Making Things: Getting into a rutRachelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16619866897155085499noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3388623297510187244.post-72631749650273437672016-02-06T23:02:09.939+00:002016-02-06T23:02:09.939+00:00Yup, that's what I noticed when I tried to gro...Yup, that's what I noticed when I tried to group them. There are obvious semantic groupings that don't work with the order you have to do things. I'll be interested to hear whether you find a more effective grouping that actually helps.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16619866897155085499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3388623297510187244.post-27352641021188732362016-02-06T21:08:02.869+00:002016-02-06T21:08:02.869+00:00Wow! Those are great suggestions. I think I sorta ...Wow! Those are great suggestions. I think I sorta do have them lumped together in my brain, but come to think of it, that may be part of my problem. <br /><br />It's like I have things grouped mentally in a way that makes sense for me, but for various complicated reasons I can't do all of one group before I move onto the next group - like I have mouthguard grouped with brush & floss teeth... because they're all related to teeth. But I always start my bedtime routine with brush & floss teeth... but then I can't put the mouthguard in until after I've taken all of the pills ('cause it takes up so much of my mouth that I can't physically take a drink once it's in) - so my group gets interrupted. <br /><br />Likewise, I have wash face, Breathe Right Strip and nose spray grouped in my mind because they all have to do with nose (I have to wash my face before I put on the strip or the thing won't stick.) The problem is that because I'm paranoid about inhaling tap water (long crazy story about brain eating amoebas) I try to wait at least 5 minutes after washing my face to do the nose spray so I don't inadvertently inhale any tap water. So once again, the group gets interrupted.<br /><br />Hmmm... perhaps I need to restructure my groups so they are lumped together by which things can be done in a group rather than by the mental construct (teeth, nose, etc) that links them together. <br /><br />Gosh... maybe I'm not crazy after all... maybe I just have my systems working crosswise to each other. Thanks! I'll let you know if it works or not.EcoCatLadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15704811319510740473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3388623297510187244.post-60036587264642304482016-02-06T19:08:48.297+00:002016-02-06T19:08:48.297+00:00I have to disagree with you here: I'd say it r...I have to disagree with you here: I'd say it really <em>is</em> that complicated. My bed-time routine consists of: clean teeth, turn off lights, get undressed, get into bed. I'm willing to bet three items on that list are also part of your routine, but you didn't bother to list them because they're not things you forget. Added to the nine you have listed, that's twelve things to remember.<br /><br />The thing about routines is that they make things easier <em>once they're established</em>. Getting them set up is pretty hard going. Notice that both Nicola and I are adding things to our routines one at a time and letting that settle in before adding anything else. Even though you've had the same list of things to do for years, I don't think you have a routine established.<br /><br />Here are a couple of mnemonic tricks that might be worth trying, if you haven't already. The first is to cut the length of the list by lumping things together. If you can find some connection between items, then one will remind you of the next. For me, I'd put supplements and pill together, as all being tablets, then things that involve water - wash face, brush teeth, which then leads on to flossing, then it gets a bit complicated because the obvious groupings don't fit well with what I guess are constraints on what order to do things. You have two things to put in/on your face, and each of those has an associated preparation: Nasal spray then strip; clean then put in mouth guard.<br /><br />I've ended up with three lists, which have two, three and four items in each:<br />Take supplements, bc pill<br />Wash face, brush teeth, floss teeth<br />Nose spray, Breathe Right strip, clean mouthguard, put in mouthguard.<br /><br />I would find this easier to remember than nine disconnected items. It also includes '2 things, 3 things, 4 things' as a cue. You might find a different grouping more natural.<br /><br />The other method is more contrived: You make up a story involving all of the things you need to remember, and go over it a few times until you've memorized it. This shouldn't be too hard as we're generally good at remembering stories, relative to disconnected information (though I'm not very good at making them up). Then you have to tell yourself the story every night.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16619866897155085499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3388623297510187244.post-78170099010852288012016-02-05T20:55:19.803+00:002016-02-05T20:55:19.803+00:00I am really, REALLY bad at sticking to routines. A...I am really, REALLY bad at sticking to routines. And I'm not even talking about something as grandiose as you are describing - I have trouble just getting ready for bed! <br /><br />It's not that complicated, but before I go to bed I need to: brush & floss my teeth, take my evening supplements, take my bc pill, wash my face, put on my Breathe Right strip, clean my mouthguard & put it in, and use my allergy nose spray. I try and try to set up a routine to follow, but at least half the time I'll crawl into bed, turn off the lights and then remember that I've forgotten to do something on that list. <br /><br />Seriously, this list has not changed in many, many, many years, so I'm just at a loss. How can it possibly be so difficult?!? I've tried everything I can think of. I've tried making myself check things off a list, I've tried strategic placement of the various items, I've tried hanging signs for the most often forgotten things... nothing works!<br /><br />Anyhow, people always talk about how wonderful routines are because they don't have to think about it, but my brain just doesn't seem to work that way. So if you figure out the secret, please let me know! :-)EcoCatLadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15704811319510740473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3388623297510187244.post-15330668790336704212016-02-05T17:37:54.743+00:002016-02-05T17:37:54.743+00:00I think I have most detail in my morning routine j...I think I have most detail in my morning routine just because I started at the beginning of the day and worked forwards.<br />Yes, vacuum every day does sound excessive, but then I have a very high tolerance for dirt!Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16619866897155085499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3388623297510187244.post-54741254766600628182016-02-05T05:38:33.317+00:002016-02-05T05:38:33.317+00:00My morning routine is much more set and regular th...My morning routine is much more set and regular than the rest of the day- I think because nothing comes along to disrupt it. It helps that I naturally wake up early, and therefore am undisturbed. <br />I've recently added 'vacuum house' to the morning routine (between 'start cooking breakfast' and 'eat breakfast'). Vacuuming every day sounds excessive, but with three cats and a dog there is always lots in the vacuum each day. I've also added a bit of stretching in after the vacuuming (we have porridge for breakfast, which I just leave on a low heat, so it takes a while to cook, hence having time for all these things!)<br />I think adding one or two things at a time helps, otherwise it's too different and too difficult!NicolaBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01542310810409358114noreply@blogger.com